Then you'll want a convertible car seat it 'converts' from backward-facing to forward-facing to use during the next few years. I appreciate some of these but I wouldnt call this a cheat sheet. Learn how to lesson one. Lesson two. Learn how to lesson two. Lesson three. Lesson four. Seek professional help. By Ken Gordon Updated October 08, Save Pin FB More. By Ken Gordon. Comments 2. Sort by: Newest. Newest Oldest. Read More. Diapers, boogie wipes, snot suckers, and bottom wash are all things that we have tested.
A lot. You can take a look at the products that we like the most on our essential list. The fact of the matter is you will have to take your baby on the move. Actually, you will have to take your baby on the move pretty much as soon as they are born! Moving precious cargo is a great investment, and it will serve you well to get acquainted with the gear early on. We have a few recommendations of our own if you want to check them out here: Baby Essential List. We have a definitive list of things that you should not buy.
A crib bumper see the American Academy of Pediatrics , a stuffed animal for sleepy time, a blanket, anything that promotes co-sleeping, a copious amount of toys, and baby-proofing stuff.
We have some extensive research on healthy sleeping habits, and part of that is keeping the crib free of anything that can cover your baby. Most of the time they will be happy being held or propped up and looking at faces! You made it to the second trimester, hooray! Now is the time most couples start telling people about their baby because the risk factor is lower now. It is a good idea to start getting more in-depth with your research into finding things like daycare and pediatricians.
Habits take time to build, and being healthy can be very important for your baby. The healthier you are, the more energy you will have to devote to your baby. Do little things that make you feel good. Look after yourself and your partner, because little things will one day pass down to your kids. Healthy kids are happy kids. Being a great dad starts way before the kid is born. Give your partner some slack, and help them out with things. Coparenting is a powerful tool and a great example of the creating something greater than the sum of the separate effects.
Divvying up tasks can help you feel more included and get you on the right track for coparenting while you wait for the big day. Your partner is likely staying up late reading material about how to parent as well.
If they send you stuff, read it! Being on the same page when it comes to preparation is a great idea. And, while reading is great, consider an online parenting class —courses that use video can be a great way to learn skills, knowledge, figure out gear, and more.
You will also learn a lot about the process from going to the appointments and will likely be more prepared because of it. Take a minute for yourself. It is too easy to get overwhelmed when preparing for your baby, so stay in tune with yourself and make sure you reach out if you need support. Singing and talking to your baby while it is still in the womb can still be very powerful. There is research showing that it can lead to a happier baby, but we believe it can lead to a happier YOU too!
To make things easier, for now you get to read or sing what you and your partner want to. So keep on doing you with those soapy romance novels that are your go-to.
Guess what? If you are adopting, then you will still have a strong bond with a happy child. We promise. Spending time doing research, reading, and preparing for your baby can accomplish the same thing.
You know that thing dads do when they have peanuts, or like chex mix, in their hand and they shuffle it back and forth? Yeah do that now cause apparently all dads do that for some reason. You will no doubt take a million pictures of your baby. Take videos too! It is also important to live in the moment and put the devices down every once and a while to soak up the experience as much as you can. That being said, turn that iPhone sideways if you are going to take a video. A what??
Take a trip for you and your partner before you have your baby. Soon, it will be all baby all the time, which is totally something to look forward to, and you deserve to have one last partners-only trip for a little while. Check for board certification FAAP or ABP if you want, insurance options, proximity to your home, office hours, whether they are accepting new patients, and see if you can interview them.
Having a baby at the very least means changing your sleeping habits aka less sleep. Nine months gives time for dads to read about babies and what to expect, particularly if being around young children will be a new experience. The more engaged you are in the process, the more a part of things you will feel. Work together: Sometimes the best laid plans for equality in relationships go by the wayside.
This is a good time to re-evaluate the division of labor in your household. Even when both adults work outside the home, surveys show that the majority of household work is still done by females.
Adding a baby to your home will mean a significant increase in responsibilities as well as joys. Take some time during pregnancy to discuss with your partner how you think things will change and talk about how you might meet those new expectations.
Check your employee benefits: Many companies offer paternity leave for new dads. Is this a benefit at your company? If so, how long is it? What are the policies around time off for prenatal visits? Fully research your options. Talk with your partner about your worries.
You may also want to talk to other new dads about any tips about having a baby. Reaching out for help and support is a sign of strength. Stay healthy together: You can support the health of your pregnant partner and your baby- to-be by cooking and eating healthy meals together and exercising together take walks or do yoga, etc.
Planning for the birth: There is a lot to consider about the birth itself. Will your baby be born in a hospital or birth center or birthing room? Who will be present? What role will you play?
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